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Making Sense of Bioethics: Column 105: Discrimination and Human Genital Sexuality

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Discrimination is often under­stood as acting out of prejudice against persons who differ from us and do not share our views, traits, values or lifestyles. The word "dis­crimination," however, has an older meaning as well, namely, to draw a clear distinction between proper and improper, good and evil, to differentiate and recognize as dif­ferent. This older meaning generally carried favorable connotations with it: a person of discrimination was someone of good judgment and detailed knowledge, as in the case of one who could discriminate be­tween fine wines, detecting subtle but relevant differences, or some­one on Wall Street who could dis­criminate between the profiles of different companies, discerning which stocks would rally and which would decline.

Only in more recent times has the term “discrimination” assumed the second meaning signifying prejudice, or an unfounded bias against a person, group, or culture on the basis of racial, gender, or ethnic background. Sometimes people will equate discrimination against people who are gay or les­bian with racism, much like dis­crimination based on skin color. As Michael Kirby notes, 

Bishop Desmond Tutu, one time Anglican Arch­bishop in South Africa, who had earlier tasted the sting of racial discrimination, has been a valiant defender of the equality and dignity of GLBTIQ [gay,lesbian, bi­sexual, transsexual, intersex, and otherwise ‘queer’] peo­ple. He has explained that he could no more embrace the ha­tred and discrimination of Chris­tian brothers and sis­ters against the sexual mi­nority than he could em­brace the racism of apart­heid, now overthrown.

Regrettably, we all know of people who manifest a racist at­titude against others, treating them improperly because of char­acteristics they cannot control, like skin color. Even when a per­son can control certain charac­teristics, like their sexual behav­iors, and they still choose to do something wrong and perverse, such as having sex with animals, we must never choose to hate the person who engages in these wrong and perverse behaviors. But loving the person who com­mits sexual sins never entails that we should accept his sins and perversions; on the contrary, to love him authentically means we seek to help him rise out of his dam­aging behaviors, so that he can live in a more fully human way by means of better moral choices. 

Clearly, then, nobody should embrace “hatred and discrimination” against anyone, GLBTIQ or other­wise, but everyone should show care and compassion towards those with GLBTIQ dispositions, in the hope that they might come to recognize and renounce the harmful and disor­dered forms of sexual activity that tempt them. It remains the better part of wisdom to discriminate, in the moral sense of the term, between disordered uses of human sexuality and the ordered engagement of hu­man sexuality within marriage.

In the human body, our organs have discernible functions: the heart pumps blood; kidneys remove waste products from the blood and excrete them in the urine; reproductive or­gans join man and woman as one, and enable the procreation of chil­dren. The anatomical and procreative complementarity of men and women is evident, and even the shapes of their sexual organs reveal how they are designed for each other, some­thing not true of non-conjugal forms of sexual activity. As Dale O’Leary points out, 

the reproductive/sexual organs of men and women are differ­ent and designed to fit to­gether. When electricians refer to male and female plugs, every­one can easily rec­ognize which is which and why they are so named.

O’Leary further notes that non-conjugal acts are ultimately acts that one person does to another, and that such acts involve the language of us­ing and being used. She notes that, “Although there are various acts in which two or more indi­viduals can engage for sexual pleasure, only one very specific act consummates a mar­riage. The other acts… involve the hands, either end of the diges­tive system, or physical objects, but not the reproductive organs of both si­multaneously in the same act.” 

Conjugal acts, meanwhile, in­volve the language of giving and re­ceiving, through a union of comple­mentary human persons. Conjugal acts address a man and a woman’s need for completion not only by the intimate bodily communication of themselves to each other, but in a transcendant and ecstatic way by pointing to a reality greater than themselves in the engendering of their offspring. 

We intuitively view the world in purpose-driven ways, and we recog­nize the telos (“end”) written into the realities that surround us. The telos of an acorn is to become an oak tree; the telos of human sexuality is to draw man and woman together to procre­ate and raise children in the family unit created by marriage. Acknowl­edging the fashioning of our sexuality in this determinate way, and recog­nizing the conjugal union of marriage as an institution of nature, not a product of man’s willfulness, enables us to discriminate between proper and improper uses of the gift of our genital sexuality.

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